Dating a younger man with kids
She had access to a world I didn’t, and she had done all the things I hadn’t done yet,” he said.Now he’s in his mid 40s, and married with a kid, and remembers that relationship as critical to making him the man he is now.Men, who feel they've been "tied down" for far too long or what he considers a marriage of obligation, feel as if he's been cheated of his youth and his "fun years." It's as if he seeks a younger woman to replace his older model (wife) and convince himself somehow that dating a younger woman will bring back his youthfulness and give him a second chance to have fun again.A gentleman dating a younger woman is not like a time machine.
Studies show older men prefer youth and beauty first for mate selection and women choose men who offer resources and stability.Should you automatically go dutch or expect her to pay? In fact, you want to impress someone, treat a lady with some bank to a nice meal, because she appreciates exactly how much it costs. So when you take her out with your friends or coworkers, be it to a wedding or work event, you don’t have to worry she’ll perish without your constant attention. Since she’s got a little life on her (and maybe even a marriage in her past), she may not have the rigid checklist that a younger girl has.She’s been to enough of these things on her own to manage just fine while you’re talking to someone else. Most of the single women I know over 35 just want a good man, period.It's no surprise there are a number of websites emerging and profiting from these "mutually benefiting" relationships.The "successful older man" seeking "young attractive female" is common place.